Down On Your Luck in Oklahoma


Written by Heide Brandes in the December 2014 Issue

When Trish Ferguson of Edmond was granted custody of her two granddaughters, she found herself in a tough situation. She didn’t own any baby items, baby clothes or even diapers and formula.

With six children in the home, the Fergusons were already living on a tight budget. Baby items are expensive, and Trish simply didn’t know where to look for help. She turned to Facebook, asking for ways to get items for her new babies.

A line of people waiting for the Down On Your Luck in Oklahoma garage sale“A friend told me about this group called ‘Down on Your Luck in Oklahoma’ on Facebook,” Trish said. “I posted that I needed baby items, and within days, I had baby clothes, diapers, a case of formula and so much more. That’s when I got hooked. I knew I wanted to be a part of this community.”

For Oklahomans who are seeking help or for those who want to give items away to a worthy cause, the community Facebook page called “Down on Your Luck in Oklahoma” is filling a need. Though she wasn’t an administrator yet, Trish said she wanted to “pay it forward,” so she sorted through everything her kids had outgrown and offered it on the site.

Less than six months later, she—along with fellow administrator Laura Williamson—now runs the page which has more than 9,500 members intent on receiving, trading, giving or offering items to those in need. The rules are simple—no buying, no selling. Everything is freely given. Everyone pays it forward.

“I know what it’s like to be down on your luck and need help. At one point, everyone needs help,” Trish said. “We all are passionate about what we are doing, and it’s an amazing thing. You find that the people with the least to give end up giving the most.”


The “Down on Your Luck in Oklahoma” Facebook page was originally started by Oklahoman Brandon Vandagriff. When Ferguson and Williamson joined, the group had less than 100 members. In mere months, that number jumped to more than 600, and the group today has more than 9,500 members.

Items range from furniture, toiletries, clothes, food, appliances and even specialty items like roller skates and wedding dresses. The most requests are for baby furniture, appliances and other large items like beds.

For the ladies who run the site, Down On Your Luck in Oklahoma is a labor of love and one that takes time and money. They are responsible for pick up and delivery of donations, and many times, they use their own money to get items like diapers, formula, shelving and strollers.


The number of community members for Down On Your Luck in Oklahoma keeps growing. In the past three months, the needs and donations grew so large that the group started hosting distribution days at Trish’s home.

In September, more than 150 families arrived at what looked like a giant garage sale to select items they needed. In October, the line of people weaved down the neighborhood and cars choked the residential street.

“We are learning as we go,” said Trish. “We give one large bag for clothes, for every four members of a family, but that doesn’t include bedding, strollers or things like that. People have taken advantage, but we are constantly improving the process.”

“But we do so much more,” Trish said. “We have helped homeless people get into shelters. We have helped people with job interview clothes. We have a resource list for those needing help with bills. There’s just so much need out there.”

Currently, Down On Your Luck is asking for donations to secure a permanent storage and distribution facility, and eventually, they need legal assistance to become a 501(c)3. Until then, however, the group refers to itself as concerned citizens trying to help each other out.

“That’s the whole spirit of the site,” Trish said. “I can’t even begin to count how many people have been helped. The people on this page are awesome, they want to help other people and people who don’t have the money to give are still helping because they know what it’s like to struggle.

For more information about Down On Your Luck in Oklahoma or to donate, visit


Linda Lukes Says:
November 3rd, 2016 at 3:32 pm
I am in need of hotwater heater I am 65 year old I get 570 disable and work 4hr a day make 7.25 an hr. I get 20hr a week just to make end meet my water heater leaking from the bottom please help me of able to Thank You God Bless you all

Lerene Lock Says:
November 29th, 2016 at 6:25 pm
I have some Women's clothes I would like to donate. I have been looking to give them to someone who really needed them. I may have found that avenue. Please contact me and let me know if you need clothes and, if so, what sizes.Thanks.

Mary England Says:
January 12th, 2017 at 5:56 pm
I have a friend who needs a wheel chair. Does any one have one they would like to donate to someone who really needs it?

serrace watts Says:
January 13th, 2017 at 11:15 am
I wear about a 15/16 and women's clothes an 8 1/2 and woman shoes and about a ex-large in jackets in things like that

Cheryl Wilson Says:
October 2nd, 2017 at 8:16 pm
I am in desperate need of some help with my utility bill. Does anybody know where I can get some help? I've tried DHS and the Salvation Army & no luck. I'm on disability and my husband draws retirement and he's a senior citizen.

DeShannon Says:
July 10th, 2019 at 1:57 am
Hi, I don't know if this is still a place to reach out for help ? But I am in need of baby items such as diapers size 4 & wipes (baby girl) clothes 9 mons. to a 12 mons. Shoes size 3 baby formula ( Enfamil) high chair and walker. I am the grandmother of this precious little girl. Her mother dropped her off (my daughter) and never came back. Sadley to say. She was just 1 month and 3 weeks old today she will be turning 9 months on the 15th day of July 2019 and I am having a difficult time tryna keep up with her diapers, formula and clothes. So if anybody is out there that could or would help us out! Please and thank you. My contact ( 405 ) 838-4194 or ( 405 ) 204-8951 GOD BLESS AMERICA ..

Carrie Richmond Says:
July 21st, 2019 at 3:34 am
I am disabled and in intractable pain, 24/7. I am in desperate need of good sturdy couch. Thank you so much.
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